Wednesday, 31 December 2014

Some reasons that delay/stop daughters' marriage! Avoid them.

By Apostle Pride and Anna Tendayi Sibiya
31 Dec 2013, God spoke that 2014 is a great year for love. We have seen many miracles and heard many testimonies in this regard. God has used us to release a blessing in this area..."may God, bless you with a sound, godly and happy marriage." This article is especially dedicated to daughters planning on marriage.
Some reasons that delay/stop daughters' marriage! Avoid them.
Your value is not in any man but in God Almighty. Valuing the same God will help you because marriage is a creation of this great Creator. Here are some reasons that may impede your getting married, pliz deal with these(please take every point with right critical mind and balance it according to your situation):

1. Generational curses. For every spiritual impediment shared here, you will need deliverance.
2. Spirit husbands-goblins, avenging spirits and sexual bluetooth.
3. Curses. Words spoken against your marriage, "you will never marry!"
4. Marine/water spirits
5. Raising your expectations too high that no man can match your standard. When you announce that you will be married by a man worth a million, all worth a hundred thousand will not attempt to approach you.
6. Being too selective. Whilist you should not be desperate and not just accept anyone coz you wanna get married, being too selective can hinder you.
7. Laziness. Some girls are too spoiled that they can't even do anything in house chores even at church. After conferences, while others clean up you rush off home protecting your manicure...you are under observation!
8. Confidence. Confidence is more "sexy" than a mini-skirt! Have confidence. However over-confidence can be a put off.
9. Dressing. African men will remain African. Even if they may be impressed by what they see by dressing in shorts, they will not love to be associated with a woman whose all-private is public...keep private parts private, not public parts.
10. Words that you use. Some ladies are so rough in the way they talk to people around them that men fear, "will she be able to respect me?" Remember men crave respect and if they just doubt your ability to honour them they flee.
11. Rumours. Men are simply just put off by ladies who bad-mouth others.
12. Having too many relationships. Dating 10 men in 2 years will not do you any good to your love CV just like having the same number of jobs would do.
Some reasons that delay/stop daughters' marriage! Avoid them.
13. Committing your body to every man you date. Just like girls, men sit and discuss women. Once one brags about his sexual prowess and exploits with you, a pale cloud hangs over you to those who hear.
14. Being too much of daddy's/mama's girl. Men do not want your fights to end up with your mum in them. Men are egoistic and are generally afraid to be compared to any other man, your father included.
15. Depending on familly wealth and parents legacy. This puts a man into inferiority complex. Men want to feel in control and feel fearful when everything you say is in reference to how rich you are.
16. Taking care of every financial need for your boy. Even when you are more prosperous than your guy never make him your dependant. God wired men to work and provide for women. When men do not live by this they see you as their mother, become promiscuous, take your money to marry another lady. Don't say, papa and mama never warned you.
16. "Being hydrophobic". Hydro is water, phobia means hatred. This is usually used on people who do not love bathing that much. No matter how spiritual you are, smelling bad is a put off.
17. Religious spirit. Some ladies think being religious and being spiritual are the same. There are ladies whom you can't even discuss current affairs with because they are "in the Spirit!" Boys are even afraid to propose because the ladies will release fire on the spirit of lust...saka unonyengeka sei manje mwanangu?
18. Being too secluded. No matter what, being an anti-social person will create problems for you. You have no friends, walk away when church just finishes, do not attend camps, do nothing in church, and stay indoors or your office. Do you want your husband to prophesy that there is a girl at so and so number? Avail yourself, be sociable. Be close to social leaders
19...what more reasons do you have? Receive our prayer!

Me and mama hold hands and ask God:"Lord according to your prophetic word, please bless our reader with a spouse and a proper marriage, a great wedding and family. Give them a life full of your fear, vigor and vitality, in Jesus' name. Amen."

We love you so!

Apostle Pride and Anna Tendayi Sibiya.
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